If only I knew…

Conversation with my friend just over a week ago!!!

And yes baby did have a different agenda!!! Isn’t it crazy the things we joke about.

The person I was having this conversation with is a friend from university. They battled with unexplained infertility for almost 5 years. Went to see different drs and they couldn’t find anything wrong with both her and her hubby. The last dr they saw suggested she loose some weight as she was over weight and then they regroup and decide on next steps. .She went to work and lost a ton of weight. True to the dr’s word she fell pregnant naturally.


Anjolaoluwa her daughter at 1

She was happy, joyous and over the moon. Her daughter’s first name translates – we are enjoying the wealth of God and middle name – Thank you God

And in an unexpected turn of even she fell pregnant again (what are the odds) when her daughter was 11 months… You can imagine the happiness the joy the jubilation. Hence the message about baba!!! We were even discussing if her mom will go be with her (she’s based in Canada) but with temps of -31c it was was not an option! So plans were they would come in April when it was warmer.


My friend at 8 weeks pregnant at her hubby’s surprise 40th birthday last year

Baby was due on 25th! A week after our chat.

Then…. Today I check up to ask if baby was here and how she was doing. Or if baby had a different agent and was staying put in mommy’s tummy.No response! Then I get a message on IG – I’ll send you sms –


Not the news I was expecting

😦 😦 😦 😦 😦 😦 😦

Yes I did ask today if baby’s lease in mommy’s tummy had expired.


15 responses to “If only I knew…

  1. Oh my friend. I am sooooo sorry. xxxx

  2. Ai F, you can not blame yourself for a joke. So very sad for her and for you.

  3. Oh, shame! devastating!
    The worst!!

  4. that is terrible news – i’m so so sorry for her loss!

  5. Oh no…that’s so tragic. 😦

  6. I am so sorry. I can’t imagine anything worse. But I know you will support your friend.

  7. That is just so heartbreaking. I am so very sorry for your friend. Sending love her way.

  8. I am so sorry for her heartbreaking loss. My heart goes out to her family in this beyond words time of grief.

  9. OH NO! This is just awful!!! So very sad 😦

  10. It’s so sad to read about the still birth. Sometimes one don’t know what to say. My condolences.

  11. How incredibly sad…I pray that your friend will find comfort in the Lord.

  12. This put life in perspective.

    Such sadness.

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